How is everyone so different?

Everyone is living such a different life and I am so unable to comprehend it. Trust me, this is not because i am self-obsessed or anything but I'm unable to wrap my head around the concept that people have such different lives.

One thing that I have realized is that people have SUCH different backgrounds that you can't even try to judge them or remotely know about them at first glance. This is no single experience but something i have learnt through various experiences.

There are such small conversations that i over hear and realize that life is not that deep and that it is so so simple and it's just these simple conversations that make it so. I overheard my friend talking about Christmas gifting, and how her mother wouldn't be able to pronounce roblox, she would say roblok in the market. And she laughed off at that thinking, how cute it would be if her mom actually got her the roblok gift. The struggle she would go through but still get it. This made me giggle so much right now, in the cutest way possible.

My best friend is so far away from me right now, she is 1500 miles plus away and when she tells me about the things she does, it almost feels unreal. The things she's going through is SO different from what i am. It feels like a utopian conversation every time we speak. Any how what connects is our base. Now, for example, if it was someone I knew from the states and they turned to be my best friend and lived further away then, would i still be able to connect with them? I don't exactly know what I am getting at but this is SUCH a dilemma.

Anyways, I recently visited New York and OH MY GOD. The air over their is so vibrant and cold. I completely understood why serena had so many issues and why Charlotte was always on a hunt to live the best life. You just want everything to be fixed, to be perfect just like the city is.